WHAT IS A GAME?
I want to give you all a brand-new look at what games have to do with relationships.
Let us revisit the definition of a game.
“Any activity or area that one involves themselves in. This activity would include successes and barriers.”
WHAT CONSTITUTES AN ENJOYABLE GAME?
No enjoyable game will occur where there are too many successes or too many barriers.
For a game to be interesting, there needs to be the element of scarcity, in other words, overcoming a challenge or barrier.
Scarcity means that you must roll up your sleeves, put on your thinking cap, and begin to strategize how you will tackle the game at hand. Your attitude has everything to do with getting into action and creating the fun of a game.
Going out into the dating world, one must understand that not every date is likely an instant winner. One may need to experience a multitude of “imperfect” dates before meeting the right person. Not every single person you meet will be right for you.
It is crucial that you fully grasp this concept before even venturing into the dating experience.
Otherwise, you might suffer more upsets than needed just because you failed to consider this fact.
If you were single and went out dating and every person you met wanted you and was readily available, you would experience an abundance. This game most likely would become uninteresting and amount to no game!
It would be the same if a soccer team won every game they played. The players would become less interested in playing soccer. There would be too many wins with no exciting challenges.
Think about it. Anything too perfect amounts to a no-game situation.
In my observation, a no-game situation has never made anyone excited or happy about life!
A GOOD RELATIONSHIP GAME AS OPPOSED TO A BAD ONE
A relationship that is doing well with two people working together to create fun and enjoyment would be playing a fantastic and pro-survival relationship game.
A relationship that does not play as a team but operates in an” opponent” situation would not be experiencing a fun game.
We have a negative game situation here, and the game becomes getting one another!
Being able to engage in and play high-action fun games is an inspiring thing to do. Having nothing to do and no one to “play” with is not what most wish to experience!
WHAT DO WE DO WITH THE INDIVIDUAL WHO HAS GIVEN UP ON THE RELATIONSHIP GAME?
So, the first thing we have to do with an individual who has given up on the game of relationships is to rehabilitate their interest in even wanting to play the game of love.
Signing up for the Relationship Dynamix program would enable you to start being able to play a fabulous dating or relationship game.
We welcome you to join in and get to play a better game at love!
We are looking forward to having you all on board!
Best Regards
Shirley & the team at Relationship Dynamix
